5. Your communication is honest and trust is implicit

5. Your communication is honest and trust is implicit

Difficult conversations aren’t scary because you trust that disagreements won’t end in heart break. You look at relationships like a three-pronged fork – all three spikes (him, her, both of you) make a perfect pitch. Demands aren’t unfair and expectations are realistic.

Pragmatic folks say 100 per cent trust doesn’t exist. But there’s good reason to just trust. For starters, you get peace of mind. You won’t waste time trying to ambush them. You let things slide because you believe the slack came from an innocent place, not out of malice or lack of interest. The smallest nest of distrust is fodder for bad energy to pervade and crash test the foundation you’ve laid. Aim for sexual nirvana and surrender to sexual abandon, don’t bring sexual baggage to the relationship.