7. He was more attracted to her physically

7. He was more attracted to her physically

This one’s a tough pill to swallow, but the other girl has a natural advantage if she’s more of his physical type than you are. That doesn’t mean that you’re less attractive than her, it just means that when it comes to this guy, you always had your work cut out for you. Think about it in terms of food. If you prefer pasta to pizza, then you’re probably going to order linguine over a calzone while eating Italian. Sure, you can still enjoy the latter, but it’s never going to be your first choice. At any rate, it’s better to date someone who can’t help liking you than date with someone who has to work at it.