2. She’s more focused on the wedding than on the marriage

2. She’s more focused on the wedding than on the marriage

Marriage is a journey, not a destination, but she aptly forgot that. Yup, you’re the icing on her cake. A girl who dreams incessantly of perfect wedding bliss needn’t be bad news. But if she’s too focused on the trees, forgets the forest (life after marriage) with all its pokey bushes and thorny shrubs and expects a picture perfect life, she may not be mature enough to be a life partner. Make sure she knows that marriage isn’t a jump in or jump out situation depending on how well things go.