7. He refuses to pick a date

7. He refuses to pick a date

He “promised” you’d be together legally, but legally never comes. Ignoring pleas to set a date and do the vows spell trouble. True, most married people will tell you that tying the knot isn’t something to majorly over analyze. Why? Because history has proven that the final outcome of such decisions can never be accurately predicted – rich can become poor, the beautiful will age, the skinny could fatten, happiness doesn’t always favor the rich, kids won’t always fulfill your secret aspirations, life will never be a fairytale and, yes, the problems will keep pouring in. However, if you’ve done adequate jail time together but life’s no longer on blueberry hill, ask yourself if life without him is better than one with him in it.