Sex appeal isn’t all about the way you look. In fact, one of the easiest ways to be more attractive is to simply stop moaning. If you meet new people and whine and complain about your mother, or your job, or your boss, you will instantly seem less appealing. People want to be with others who make them feel good. We’re not saying you shouldn’t have a grumble when you’re feeling low; just limit the moaning if you find that most of what you say is negative.