10. Just tell her

10. Just tell her

Once you’re sure you’ve got a chance, and have weighed the pros and cons of an office relationship, then you need to be assertive and find out how she feels. Women like a confident person, a man with a plan. By confessing your feelings, you’re showing that you are serious about her and aren’t just flirting for fun. Find out what she wants and where she stands on workplace relationships. Does she want to be open with it right away? Or does she want to lie low until you figure out how the upper management would react? How does she feel about possibly putting her career at risk?