2. Offer to buy her lunch

2. Offer to buy her lunch

This is one of the most effective, yet non-threatening things you could do. It’s not as if you’re asking her out on a date. You’re just asking if she wants to come check out a new lunch joint that opened down the street. If she continually rejects you, dial it down a notch. Not ready to jump ship? Then start by letting her know that you’re going out for lunch. Then ask if she wants anything. Who knows, she might decide to tag along after all once she’s warmed up to you.