3. You’re classified information

3. You’re classified information

“Am I top secret?” Some men do us the disservice by graduating us to secret keeper - we may value the friendship and don’t particularly relish the thought of getting into a muddy mess with his wife (who’s a friend of a friend). But you never graduate to first wife or first girlfriend status. You get the leftover dates in an unfilled calendar and you’re never a priority because of your position in his pecking order. Not the stuff dreams are made of!