3. He needs his own space

3. He needs his own space

Don’t bang your head against the wall. Accept that some people will constantly need space to do their own thing. Don't allow your nagging need to connect become a source of negative tension. Most men don’t need this “crap” – constantly putting their lives on “revolve around X” mode – and would readily scissor off your suffocating tentacles in a heartbeat. You see, what felt like heaven in the beginning can quickly turn into hell if your needs and expectations don’t match. But don’t dump him just yet. No two people are ever in total sync. The trick is to fluidly meld like chameleonic liquid metal and take all thorny situations in stride.