6. He has real problems that has nothing to do with you

6. He has real problems that has nothing to do with you

And, it’s usually money or job related. Men don’t multi task emotions and work very well but they also don’t spend their time thinking about feelings. Their self-esteem is tied more to their work life than their love life with you. They’ll be the first to admit you can’t live on love and air (you have to pay for water!). So they retreat, become introverted, go quiet. He’s hell bent on resolving his current crisis. Be mature, digest that.